Where did God get a son to send to us speaking of John 3:16?

Question by Elizabeth (the jewish princess): Where did God get a son to send to us speaking of John 3:16?
I am a Christian by all means,but I’m (basically) a 36 year old with a “2 yr old” brain constantly askying (why? and why?) So back to my question Why do they say he sent his son, wasn’t it kinda Mary’s son too? I mean she did carry him and give birth to him, I’m not being at all sac religious here I’m honestly searching for answers, was Jesus in heaven all ready a full grown son and then had to come into the earth as a baby? Is that what happened? That’s why I just asked the trinity question a minute ago,,, It’s just so hard to get answers and even depending on who you ask, some people get mad! I’m talking about pastors, they don’t like when you ask them questions that they don’t have answers for ( I’m thinking) when I say “pastors” I’m meaning anyone who I’ve ever spoken with that has been a head of the church from a priest to a minister to a rabbi etc,,, I know were not going to get all of the answers but some bigger more power full people seem to have more answers like in the movie “the Davinci Code” just an example I know, and they just seem so scarey and complicated. And they seem to know more and like there getting messages right from God, And in the Passion of the Christ when Jesus was praying, who was he praying to? If he’s God is he praying to himself? I don’t get it, I just don’t get it, Does anyone else feel like this at anytime?? I’m so afraid I’m alone in my thinking and that in some way I may be punished for it, does this make sense to anyone else? Because if God didn’t already know Jesus as as a son and have a great bond with him then would it really have been a sacrifice??? does anyone get that? It seems to me if it was a sacrifice it would have been one more for Mary and Joseph more then anyone else? Does anyone get what I’m saying, so Jesus must have what already lived in heaven and then came down here in Human flesh is that it? I’m so confused, They need to make a bible for dummies for just me I swear,,,but anybody that has any “nice answers id greatly appreciate”
Thank you guys, I didn’t see the two people that you guys gave thumbs down to below thank you for that, and for protecting one of your own, even if she is a bit will say confused lol,,Billy, you should be a pastor even on my other question you seem to have a knack for being able to make things a lot easier and Arthvade I’ve only known you throught are answering some of the same questions for a long time and you are very smart,,,, UM::: To the Pimp I’m Jewish by descent, so you might want to go look that up, see people can be born Jewish that doesn’t have anything to do with there religion, Your all very sweet and I may just E-mail you Billy I have a feeling you can help me out with a lot: My sister Committed Suicide January 11th just a couple yrs now and this stil hurts really bad, and maybe that’s why all of this is comng up, The pain just won’t go away, and maybe I need to know she’s ok, so Thanks God Bless You All!!!!
this is to the ” a pimp named slickback” who is so worried about my AVATAR not being correct; but unless he’s actually a pimp, which means he’s the boss of hookers right? Then who agrees he should drop the PIMP IN HIS NAME ???? AND YOUR STUDYING OR GOING TO THE SEMINARY WITH THAT KIND OF AVATAR WHAT MAYBE YOUR A YOUTH PASTOR ??? I was born that way I can’t help mine,,,at least I’m not pretending to be something I’m not, If anyone believes in Jesus Christ they are a CHRISTIAN there are a lot of jews that believe in JESUS CHRIST !!!!!!!

Best answer:

Answer by hasse_john
•. It becomes clearer if you eliminate heathen names. (Ex 23:13) In the beginning there was only YHVH. Then He became two. The heavenly Father YHVH, and the Creator YHVH who created all things. They were ‘echad’ which means ‘one’ but is not necessarily the ‘one’ of unity. A married couple are also ‘echad’. the Creator then entered Mary to be born YAHOSHUA, the Savior, Messiah. His name means YHVH-saved. He was still divine, and Almighty, though He limited His divinity with Humanity, so in a sense the Heavenly Father was greater than He. When the Savior died, an Almighty one did indeed die. In other words, Mary was a surrogate mother. Her DNA did not affect the Savior.

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