Q&A: Making friends at camp ?

Question by October<3: Making friends at camp ?
So starting July 5th i’m going to be going to summer camp at the YMCA. I’m pretty excited because both my mom and I want me to make some new friends :).
I am a pretty nice person. But I am also really shy when it comes to people I’ve never met before.
Like what if they are in there stupid little clicks -___-
So, how should I make friends and become better acquainted ?
And I want it to become one of those friendships where it’s really close and doesn’t just stop at camp. Like maybe going to the movies and that type of stuff.
Thanks a bunch :))
Ten Points ;D

Best answer:

Answer by grenyze
It’s good that you are open to lasting friendships, however, for now, just focus on making friends. One thing you can do to make yourself feel more confident going into this is: Make a list of things that you find interesting, such as movies and types of movies, actors/actresses; activities that you like, maybe shopping or hiking or picnicking; books, sports, etc. Write this on a piece of paper and put it in your pocket and if you feel like striking up a conversation but your mind draws a blank on what to say, glance at your paper and ask the other person if they are into one of the things you have listed. And obviously, you don’t need to wait ’til camp to try this out. If you see someone you think might be a good friend, you could try this. If you feel like you’d prefer to practice with someone and you’re comfortable doing that with your Mom, ask her if she’d mind practicing. Might be nice for her too, since it sounds like you’re both interested in making some new friends.

Oh, and definitely ask the other person about themself–generally, most people love to talk about things they like or such things as if they have pets or siblings, etc.

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