How do i get my fiance to make a decision?
Question by yesterdaysnewstoday: How do i get my fiance to make a decision?
My fiance has been brought up in a environment where she has been second guessed for almost every single decision she makes that it is has come to point that it is very hard for her to make a decision. I definitely encourage her to make decisions when i am with her, like what to eat for dinner or what movie to see, but that doesn’t seem to be working. She simply can’t make a decision. What can i do? It is pretty frustrating that i make every single decision that it wears me out and i want to make sure she is speaking up for herself. This has caused a lot of arguments because when she DOES make a decision and its something that i simply don’t want to do (like watch a “how do i look” marathon) she gets mad at me because i am not supporting her decision . Is there a difference between disagreeing and not supporting a decision? I really want to resolve this because we are getting married and want her to be able to make a decision.
Best answer:
Answer by mariegivens@sbcglobal.net
All women can be this way but also so can men and that doesn’t mean that they can’t make their own decisions after all she did become your fiance right the decision making works both ways you just got to stick to them when you make them.
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