i dont talk about things i really want to say, how can i stop doing this?
Question by heigill: i dont talk about things i really want to say, how can i stop doing this?
with friends i just talk about common topics i know they find interesting like spring break, movies, people, etc. but being the closet nerd that i am – there is nothing more i d love to talk about than my classes, my exams, my job hunting, interview tips, and all that. but when i do these, i see their eyes glazed over and it s sad watching them entertaining me just to be nice… so i just stopped :/ but lately, i realized how i am always stuck at certain level of friendship. because i am just talking about things superficially it s not surprising i never really connect or click with my friends. if any of this make sense to you, or happens to you… how can i connect more with people?
Best answer:
Answer by Jerry
You need to find friends more like you. I used to have friends like that, and now I have friends more compatible with me. I love to talk about school and stuff, and so do my friends. You need to find the ones you are compatible with.
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