Does this make any sense to you?! ‘Cause it sure doesn’t make any to me…?

Question by carmelina m: Does this make any sense to you?! ‘Cause it sure doesn’t make any to me…?
Alright, so we’re Univ students and I work with this guy. His office is very close to mine. We’ve been spending some time together. He took me to the movies, swimming, to the club, to church, and he talks to his friends about me. Well, he’s very sweet and I think I am starting to like him a lot. But the problem is that, sometimes I call him or text him, and he doesn’t answer. I become very sad and I ask myself many questions, I wonder if he likes me or not? I can honestly say that I haven’t been hassling him with my calls or texts (I text or call him like once in a week).

Anyways, I decided to stop calling him and even since our offices are so close, we used to see each other everyday, but I decided to work with my door closed and after work to directly go home without talking to him. Now, he’s coming back to knock on my door and wants to go to lunch with me. I am kinda confused with what exactly he wants? He comes to me when I am playing hard to get and runs when I am actually available. I am tired of playing games. I want a healthy relationship without games. I am not the type of girl to do the first step or to tell a guy that I like him. But I would show it with acts. What do you honestly think of this? Do you think there is any chance with him? I appreciate your honest answers.

Best answer:

Answer by Allie
seems to me that you love being with him but when he ignores you, you subconsiously punish him by ignoring him back. The reason he ignores you is that he simply doesnt want a serious relationship. be friends, he will let you now when he wants a relationship. till then move on to other guys cause he will drive you crazy.

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