I keep asking for respect from my mom and she decides when she will be respecting me?
Question by I_love_my_godmom: I keep asking for respect from my mom and she decides when she will be respecting me?
I asked her to please respect me for who i am. And she wont show my respect. I tried to get some money out of my bank account, she said no. I asked her why. she told me she might think about it.
I dont get my own space. She always walks in on me with out knocking. She wont allow me to make
my own decisions. She barely lets me hang out with friends, than calls me up and says when am i coming back home. She calls me a bitch a lot. And treats me like trash. Doesnt allow me to even take some time out of the day for myself. Says shes the way she is because of me. Wont allow me to even go on date because she would rather make me work around the house instead of finding mr right. Found out i am sexually active and says i am a disgrace to the family. My Godmother told me to sit down with my mom, but all my mom does is put me down every single time. My birthday is coming up and i have to do what my mom wants to do, and that is to go to the bar. I said nope, and she got mad about that. She doesnt let me see the world with my own eyes. She says shes protecting me from the world. Shes evil. And is against every one i hang out with. I told her that she needs to not smoke in the house take the smoking outside, she wont respect that. She just uses me for my money or for doing what she doesnt feel like doing. Doesnt want me to have friends, or see my dads family. When i tell her i am not going to be home for dinner when my dads family is in town, she gets mad. I am the only one who keeps this house hold going. And she just sits there and watches tv, or just sleeps. And if i try to take a nap she yells at me to get her a drink. I keep saying to her get it yourself you got legs. She uses any excuse to make me do it for her. I told her no smoking at my new apt. SHe told me to shut my fucking mouth she can smoke where ever she wants. With the housing authority i am going through they dont want smoking in the apts. Than she tells me that its her choice to allow me to move. Its her choice to determind what i get for christmas and birthday. Its her choice to what movies i buy. or what music i listen to. And what food i eat. i am afraid to even speak up for my opinions dont matter with her anymore. She tells me shes busy watching tv. All she ever does is watch T.V. My godmother isnt available to come and get me at this time, But if i am out and about with my godmother my mom calls me to see when i am coming home. I cant even have a life outside of this house. I have to get permission to even hang out with my godmother. My mom thinks every one else is bad people and shes always perfect. Always saying she believes in God and Jesus, which she has never read or picked up a bible in her adult life. Says that being catholic is a religion that should be band. And the only religion should be allowed is mormom religion. I am catholic. and doesnt even know it. I graduated from high school back in 2004, thats the only main even she went too. And now when i have something to do, i dont get that finished. My cell phone is about a week late because she says we have no money to pay it. She gave the money to her boyfriend in which i had saved up for my cell phone line. The only reason why i even have a cell phone is because she wants to track my every move. And gets pissed that i have other money stashed aside that she doesnt know about. Says i need to share with her. My dad gives me money for odd jobs. And she says i took money out of her wallet. Than tells me to give the money up. My dad wont get me a bday gift because he says that my mom will not allow me to even have it. She barely lets me play my wii. And says for me to not take my wii to my apt. Its my wii not hers. She didnt pay for it my dad did. I bought a nirvana nevermind CD last week, she asked me where did you get the money for the cd? Well, i worked for the money. I got 2 used video games for the wii, and likely for me to even get to play my wii is only less than it would be if i was going to be dads. She says she cant respect me because she feels that i dont have to be respected. I went to a party with a friend of mine, and my mom got pissed off. And calls me up and says where are you at. I said at a friends birthday party. She said get your ass back home now. She keeps me hidden from everyone so she can emotionally abuse me. I cant even see my godmother when she comes to visit until i move. Because my mom is trying to get me to turn against my godmother, and to turn against everyone else. I tell her i am not an object i am a human being with feelings. she doesnt care. Called me a bitch last nite for saying that my town is under flood warning still. I keep asking her not to call me names anymore it hurts my feelings. She says what feelings you have no feelings. And i was trying to get my niece to go to bed at 11:30 last night and i said get to bed, my mom said i was being mean. The kid is 6 years old. she should be in bed asleep. And allows my nice to stay up.
My godmother isnt available at this time. I just used the bathroom and my mom looked at me and said a dis respectful word to me.
Best answer:
Answer by Isabella
Your question was very long, so I didn’t read the whole thing. My advice is to maybe move out for a bit, to your godmother’s house? She seems supportive. Good luck!
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