Lost Love Behaving Rude?

Question by Alex Muntaz: Lost Love Behaving Rude?
It’s been 6 months since me and my boyfriend were forced to part. He was an exchange student and had to go back to his home in the other side of the world, we both knew this when we first met, that we could only be together for 4 months if we hooked up, but we hooked up anyway and made the best of it.
I have to admit, I’m still madly obsessed with him. Not a day goes by without myself wishing to turn back the clock and be with him a little more. I know I’m a clingy person by nature, so I didn’t smother him with letters and emails and didn’t think of dating anyone else. To him, I follow the give-and-take rule. I write an email for example, and only do another one when he replies. So far this didn’t fail.

So when two months ago while he was under exams, I was filling up my social life by meeting people with the same interests as me; comics, video games, and movies. I decided to try his old Dungeons and Dragons society, and REALLY got into it. I even joined its facebook group. But I made sure no one noticed because 1, my mom wouldn’t stop scolding me for socialising with ‘stupid people who always wear black’. And 2, I wanted to make it a surprise to him.

So I was suprised and excited when I finally had a facebook message from him after such a long while. But the message made my smile drop.
Basically he gave a brief message saying hi, just wondering how you got to know (another person’s name who I friended through the DoD group), otherwise how are yous everything okay for yous etc.
So I played coy and avoided the first question, I meant it as a ‘look harder at my profile dummy’ expression, and just simply told him all that’s happening to me, which was alot.

But after that, he did not reply. I didn’t say anything anymore, and made sure that he’s okay by not coming down to a horrible sickness or accident or anything by lurking in his facebook. I bought him a book I knew he’d like, gift-wrapped it and sent it by post, then crossed my fingers for it to arrive on time. But two weeks later, I didn’t even hear a peep.

I then got the notion that perhaps that message was more angry and rude than I had imagined. Was he asking if I was going out with other people behind his back? I haven’t seen the guy for 4 weeks straight because he had his own life outside the club, and most of the time I’m either rushing through deadlines and playing halo with my friends.

Should I actually try to talk to him about this? I’m not sure at all. He was always such a bubbly and peaceful guy.

Best answer:

Answer by riggie
No just leave it alone because I think he has all ready moved on and doesn’t know how to say it so he is using your issues and new found friendships as and excuse

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