Q&A: should i give him once last chance to prove to me that he wants to be with me?
Question by Sexy Momma: should i give him once last chance to prove to me that he wants to be with me?
ohh myy gosh idk wht to do!!
me and my ex broke up like…4 months ago b.c he was a straight up jerk! so i broke up with him
we’ve been through alot together,we’ve known/liked each other for a year now
but during those 4 months i would still always see him lookin at me and he would try talkin to me sometimes…but i didnt think much about it since i was kinda over him
but like 2-3 days ago he called me outta the blu and said:
he missed me
no matter now hard he tries to get over me he cant
he says takes for granted how he treated me
he says hes 129% sure he wants to try things out again
and he says that he wont be the one who leaves me “I” will be the one who leave him (b.c he wants to be with me so much)
i said i didnt trust with enough with girls and he said he wont talk to other girls b.c he’ll be so whipped 4 me <3 (but im not gunna make him stop talkin to girls,thats just not fair)
then i said we'll try it out for a day,to see if i like it or not
and soo we tried being a couple again...it still didnt feel right,but yet i felt complete but he definitly tried
oh yeah,we chilled at his place later and we were watchin a movie/layin down/madeout/cuddled
and he said "love you"
i heard it the first time but just not clear enough so i was like "hmm?"
him: "love you"
me: "love you too"
him: "you know how i know"
me: "how"
him: "b.c you can fall asleep with me"
it didnt really make sense,but i know/feel that he loves me,oh yeah we've liked/known each other for almost a full year so FINALLY he said love you
but i just dont know if we should do this again,im scared it'll go back to the same but he promised me that he wont let it be that way...
should i give him once last chance to prove to me that he wants to be with me??
do you think he really means it when he says "love you"...i mean its not even with an "i"
any questions or comments just message me 🙂
Best answer:
Answer by Laura
NO. Do not, becuase he’ll hurt you agian. Just say i wanna be friends and ONLY friends. It seems like you care about him that way, you know love you like a brother?! Tell him that. I think he can move on. And love you? Not real I love is romantic and all dat jazz bu tnot that.
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