Q&A: We were taking it fast but now we want to fix our mistake by taking it slow, will this ruin the relationship?

Question by blonde brunette: We were taking it fast but now we want to fix our mistake by taking it slow, will this ruin the relationship?
Me and my boyfriend of 3 months, are both 15 when we started dating we were taking it really slow like, extremely slow, like id hug him once a day and wed talk, but that’s it. Then one night after we’d been doing this for a month, we were watching a movie at my friend’s house with her and her boyfriend and we sorta cuddled, no not cuddling we pretty much layed on a bed and I let my right arm touch his left arm and same with the legs, and after that i cant even remember it went so fast, but now here we are 2 months later and he touches me, i still have my pants on when he does it but its still bad and to fast right? And i touch him inside his pants and underwear, pretty much i just run my hand back and forth on his penis when its bare. We’ve only been dating for three months its too fast, right? I told him I thought it was to fast, and he agreed and said that we should just stop and take a really big step back and stop doing the bad things pretty much just start over. But I love it when we do these things that were going to stop doing and start again in a while when we think its been long enough for it to be time for us to do these things again. I know he loves it to and does’nt want to stop and i think stopping is going to make him sad. Do you think it will do anything bad to the relationship? Is there a better way to fix it? Could we just pause, like we could still touch and stuff but nothing more, were we are and stay there for a really long time would that help or make it worse? Or should we just keep on going fast? I need help on how to fix this please help me I love this boy and want to be with him for a really long time, maybe forever. PLEASE HELP ME:(

Sorry if it does’nt make sense i tried my hardest to put my jumbled thoughts in order on paper.
sorry not paper but you know what i meant.
I love all your answers thank you for helping:)

Best answer:

Answer by vengefulbetty
You will like to do these things because they feel good, you are not bad or wrong. There is nothing to fix. You are only 15 and should slow down.

You can take a step back and slow things down if you both agree. It shouldn’t hurt the relationship and if it does then you should be happy it didn’t go any further than what it did because it clearly wasn’t right.

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