Question by Heather: What should I do with my fiance? I’m stuck!!? My fiance and I have a great relationship, I am 8 months pregnant and he is working and has his own little Business on the side with computer repair, we are very lucky he gets a good amount of calls from his regular clients and new ones from the advertising that i do for him. It was a Saturday afternoon and we were having a great weekend, he told me he got a call for one of his computers he has for sale. This person did not want to buy it with out looking at it first so they agreed on the customer giving my fiance $ 20 to drive there so they can check it out. So I then said OK I’m just going to take the ride with you. He said OK, then before we were leaving he says why don,t you just go get a movie for us, I said we can just get one on the way back because i wasn’t up to staying home by myself. Sooooo we are on our way and he calls the person…First he told me at home were the location was, then we get in the car and the location is Two towns over from were he said it was …OK mistake….Hes acting funny. Its not like him to just get in the car and go somewhere without him having an exact time and place confirmed! He’s just acting weird all together whistling in the car…., So im sitting there making small talk and he seemed just very preoccupied. ……So aside from him not being able to find anything on the radio frantic in his head and whistling to songs that he normally wouldn’t, I am just waiting to see what happens next. He mentioned he got a email about his bank and his card not working , I obliged with concern, there must be something wrong and to call the bank and so on. Also I forgot to mention that we were supposed to meet this person at a certain time and we were running late. All of a sudden he has to pee, so over three lanes of traffic we go. Im thinking now that he stalling for some reason or making the stop to use his phone??? Dont know soo.. …..he comes back and we are on our way. We are now off the exit. He pulled into the bank. Thought this was weird too but i said nothing…. The ATM parking lot was empty beside one car parked at the building using the ATM, he parked us facing the opposite way and walked to the side off the building. Come to find out there was an ATM over there on the side, when he got back into the car I asked him what was up? Whats up? Did you talk money out? Why did we stop here? He claimed he was checking his bank card and he wanted to have have money getting very defensive, getting loud and defensive then saying he should have never brought me and why does he have to tell me everything. I then got pissed off asking why did you stop when we have to be somewhere, go show this person the item and go. I was just concerned with what the heck he was doing and also if his card worked and so on. He persisted that I am being insecure and what is my problem, he usually doesn’t act like this or treat me this way. I did not want things to escalate so I comed down and asked him lovingly why he got so upset…..It continued to be me that was wrong…..so we are pulling into the customers residents. This is all just weird. So he finally parks after driving around the parking lot aimlessly looking at nothing and parks in the space we passed…OK he’ll be right back, so he goes into the building and disappears didn’t see him walk up the stairs were i had just seen a women go in, yes im watching him, what does he have up his sleeve? Well hes gone for about 20 mins not thinking anything>>>he showing the computer. Well hes back and no sale…was telling me what happened and the guys thought it was a whole different computer….ok fine.… Continue reading →