What the hell is with these college dudes?
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I recently met this guy in college in my history 101 class (i’m a freshman) and I really started liking him. We never really hung out before, but one day after we ate lunch together (with a couple of other friends) I went up to his room. (keep in mind that he NEVER knew i liked him) long story short, he found out i liked him that day. he laughed it off and said it was ok. then we started watching a movie, he wrapped his arms around me and next thing i know, we were KISSING. first time officially hanging out alone as “friends”, and we’re making out. it had gotten to the point where we were about to have sex. so i told him i had to leave. he respected it and walked me to my room, text me later that night and we had a conversation.
day 2 passes, day 3, day 4, day 9. . . .and no text. i did see him though, when we were both with our friends. but it was like he didn’t want to look me in the eye. like i wasn’t there. my feelings were hurt and i figured that you know what, the guy doesn’t like me and just wanted some nookie. i’ll stop talking to him. but THEN, just three days ago i bumped into him while we were alone and he voluntarily stopped me to give me a hug, and we held a conversation. and he told me how pretty i was and how i shouldn’t have been walking alone late at night. i actually felt like we were meeting for the first time. but i figured, ok, we bumped into eachother. that’s it. but THEN, about 6 minutes after we left each other, he text me to hold a conversation! like that 2 week period that we weren’t talking to each other didn’t happen!
i’m just confused. i’m not sure if he likes me or not. that huge break we had with him not texting or calling or facebooking and basically ignoring eye contact with me really confused me. but all of a sudden, after us seeing each other alone, it’s back to normal. kind of, because he didn’t bother to text me today either. what do i take from this? helpful answers only, please. if you feel like you have to make a dumb remark, just leave.
Best answer:
Answer by cheeba0228
more than likely he thought you werent interested in him when you left. And when you and him were with friends and you didnt talk to each other, he probably thought that you werent into him or you would have talked to him. Bottom line is that both of you are thinking the same thing, that you dont know why the other has contacted you. You have his phone number too, and your worried why he hasn’t called you….I’d be worrying why you havent called him as well.
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