23/m first date advice?

Question by blazinjay04420: 23/m first date advice?
all right, just coming out of a 4 year relationship….im rusty man. havent been on a date in forever it seems like. So heres the deal…I was at a party….couple people were there….one of the girls at the party asked for my number from a friend of mine that was also there.

So she txt me a couple days later….was real short in her txt(hard to convey tones in a txt)so since she was straight to the point i followed suit. so I said i would call her in the next couple days to meet up. she said cool

now I havnt even said one word to this chick….dont know where to go or anything being that i dont know her. I know the movies or that wont allow for a conversation is a no no. she is kinda out of my league so im a lil nervouse.

So my question is….im kinda a shy person. Ive battled with it my whole life and I kinda have to push myself to keep up with conversations. Any Good ice breakers??? tips and tricks would rock guys and gals. help me out

And also I live in a small town, we have like a main strip and thats it. we have restaurants and a movie theatre and thats it.

next closest town is like 40 minutes away. huge college party town. should i make it a local thing th first go around?
And also what are some taboo or things i shouldnt bring up or shouldnt ask her. Like do you kiss on the first date….but i dont think ide be dumb enough to say that. just throw something my way. I overthink everything so im stressin

Best answer:

Answer by Elise
stay away from parties. you wanna be able to talk and get to know each other. just be your self. offer to pay the bill and thats about it.

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