Q&A: Asked my crush who already has a bf to a group movie night. What should I do next?
Question by : Asked my crush who already has a bf to a group movie night. What should I do next?
A bit long but pls bear with me
Ok, so I’ve been talking to this girl a grade younger than me at school (I’m in grade 10, she’s in grade 9) through MSN for the past 2.5 months, and today I asked if she’d like to go watch a movie with me and my friends and she said that she’d love to and that it will give us some time to get to know each other better and to be better friends.
Anyway, here’s some basic info:
– The movie we’re watching is a comedy, “Diary Of A Wimpy Kid: Rodrick Rules”.
– Both me and her are fans of the “Wimpy Kid” series.
– She got a boyfriend the day after I chickened out trying to ask her to dance at the school dance.
– She already knows that I like her, thanks to my friend who told her that I like her on a public forum that my school uses, and her reply was that she figured that I like her even if he never told her that.
– I have absolutely 0, NO experience in this stuff.
– I’ve been rivals with her current boyfriend years before all this even happened.
– My own intentions of this event is not to make her cheat on her boyfriend, but to become better friends with her, thus giving me a bigger chance to get with her when she’s available again.
– She told my friend that she only likes me as a friend because I am not confident enough, and is always too nervous around her for her to give me a try and that I rely communication on MSN too much and that we should talk in person a LOT more.
– She is not freaked out at the fact that she’ll be hanging out with a group of guys at the movies, with only two that she knows and the rest being strangers to her.
The only problem that I have right now is her current BF. If he found out that she’s going to be hanging out with me and my boys for a weekend movie, I’m afraid that he’ll flip out and do something stupid like attempt to kill me or something (his and my “gang” of boys used to be die-hard rivals back in elementary school) Back than, I was still a wild child, now I’m more closer to the sophisticated gentleman. To be honest, I really like her, and all I want is for her to be happy, so even though she has a BF right now, I’ll stilll just want her to be happy. But don’t get me wrong, I still very much want to become her next, and longest lasting BF, even if that means waiting months for my chance.
So, is there anything that I should do next? Keep in mind that I can’t afford to pay for her ticket because although I was born into the stock market (A Wall Street boy), my parents still never give me much money at all ($ 10 a week, plus more money if I helped them earn money in stocks).
Yeah, also, what can I do to make sure that night goes well and that everyone has fun? BTW, my mom doesn’t let me date, but dad does, and my mom would freak out at the thought of me talking to a white girl (I’m asian) so, yeah, I can’t really let her know about this.
Thanks
Best answer:
Answer by TTTTTTTTTTTTTTT
you sound like this kid who tried to steal my gf… guess what? i made him depressed and feel like a loser because she didnt like him she felt sorry for him yet he wudnt give up and stop tellin her he loves her so i decided 2 just end it by humiliating him and guess what? havnt had a problem with him anymore… thatll end up bein you if her bf actually likes her…
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