Does she still like me? Or is there someone else?

Question by Amaninjapan: Does she still like me? Or is there someone else?
I have recently moved to Japan and live in a guest house. I had a girlfriend of 5 years when I came here but both our feelings were not the same and had been declining. Long story short there is a girl in my guesthouse and we became good friends at first. She knew about my girlfriend and how things were ending and was ok with all of this information. We started to hang out more and more and then at a time when we were out at a club we started making out. Neither of us were drunk and it continued after. From then we started being closer going to movies, making out, all of the steps. It eventually became physical. We would have sex many times a week, and go out and explore together. Eventually I told her how I felt and we continued our relationship. Well here is where it got messy, my now ex came to visit for several weeks. The girl I am with knew of this and she was here the whole time, yes ouch I know know I was playing with fire after rolling in gasoline. Well me and my old girlfriend broke up and she is now my ex, the girl I am with now knows all of this that and that we did not do anything while she was here. After my ex left we had sex a couple of times and then she went to visit her parents. I had to go to a camp for work for 3 days and when I got back she seemed more distant. We were only apart for 4 days and part of those she was with her family. Now when we kiss its not as deep, we used to shower together and now its not as often, we still sleep together but there is no sex. I am able to touch her and she at times gives me some touching but thats as far as it goes now. She says she likes me alot and wants to be with me but she is afraid and has trouble since she has heem hurt by past boyfriends. Her famous line is “I’m not sure how I feel”. She says she is happy around me enjoys time with me but is afraid of having that boyfriend term. I am truly in love with this girl and I would give her anything she asked of me. She is also a little independent of course wanting some alone time and she tends to go and do fun things with friends too. I know I can be a little paranoid but I know there are guys who like her although she has told me there is no one else and she doesnt like those guys. Does she still have feelings for me, is she seeing someone else, what should I do!!???? I need some help guys
allright guys here is an update. So I was helping her with her items in her room, she was tired so she layed down on the bed. I finished putting the things away and then I went to set her alarm. She doesnt have an alarm clock so she uses her cellphone. I still do not have a good grasp on the japansese language so I fumbled with some buttons. Long story short I saw on her phone the message area, I saw several messages in a row from some person and of course its wrong but I was so scared nervous and curious so I looked. Aparently it was this guy who she was talking to and the messages go about meeting places and oh i should return this can of tuna to u, well its really an excuse so I can see you again, etc. So I confronted her about it of course there was the battle of the phone issue but she admitted to seeing this guy several times. Well I almost crapped myself with anxiety. Apparently she started seeing him when I was solving the issue of my ex comnig to visit. They have only gone out

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Answer by Austin T.
You might have rushed it

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