First time making out? Help please!?
Question by H0ttStUFF_08: First time making out? Help please!?
OMG,
so me and this guy has something going on, we’re not dating or anything like that though. well im gonna go to the movies with him and he says that it will be a double date with my best friend and her man. he wants to make out, and so do i. but i’ve NEVER done it before! And, I’m totally nervous! Everyone is saying that it comes naturally but I just dont feel comfortable with just knowing that.
I need like so advice and techniques and things that I need to know to make it better. He is totally more experienced and im not at all and i dont wanna embarrass myself if im a bad kisser. Im very nervous!
Any tips? Thanks!! 😀
&&& im 13!
Best answer:
Answer by Mr Hairball
You can do this. It is gentle, soft & easy. And if you enjoy him, it WILL come naturally. How do YOU want to be kissed? Softly? Gently? So does he. Oh, and a gentle fingers touch to his face or cheek also “speaks”.
Realize that your perception of him being “totally more experienced” may or may NOT have truth. It is what you believe, not necessarily truth.
Okay, lastly, being 13 has WAY more worry about such things than is really needed. So, reLAAAAAAAAX. And most of all, just be YOU. Don’t try to be or do something just because you think that HE wants or likes it. Be aware of YOUR “space” and do NOT be afraid to say “No” or No thank you” or “No, not today.” or No,. I prefer not.” And STICK with it!!! EVEN if his feelings are hurt, he’ll get over it.
Enjoy the moment. Your first kiss will remain in your memory for a lifetime. 🙂
Enjoy the process & Bon fortune.
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