How can I help my boyfriend get some decent sleep at my house?

Question by Christine: How can I help my boyfriend get some decent sleep at my house?
We’ve been dating for 6 months. He’s sweet and caring. He has no problem sleeping next to me at his place, but when he’s tried sleeping over at my place he just left grumpy cause he felt massively tired. Nothing can convince him to try sleeping over again. He said he can’t and won’t sleep at my place and instead invited me to sleep over… when his parents are out of town, which is once in a couple of months. Cause at 25 he’s still forbidden to have his girlfriend sleep over.

He says there’s nothing wrong with my apartment but I think it’s not as cosy as his parents house. I live in a rented flat, I’ve been living on my own for 9 years now, while he’s been in the same town, living in his parents house all his life, he has even graduated from college in the same town. so he hasn’t had the opportunity to try and adapt to new places, less comfortable bedrooms and so on.

I just feel very lonely and sometimes cry myself to sleep cause I’m cuddly and snuggly and would appreciate a partner I could curl up to at night.

Also, because of our jobs, we see each other only once a week or so. And aside from my double bed, i can’t bring any more comfort to my room. I simply can’t afford buying stuff to embellish my nest and make it cosier than it already is. Not even the promise of a passionate evening, or a foot massage, or a cosy-lazy movie night can bring my boyfriend to risk a whole night of possibly poor sleep at my place.

I can’t think of any more tips and tricks to help him be more flexible and change his habits just a little bit.

Best answer:

Answer by Marie
It is not about your place or you for that matter….it really is not about you. He is just not that into you. It’s okay, the next guy will love sleeping over.

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