how do i convince my asexuality without making my parents too mad?
Question by Mr. Onom: how do i convince my asexuality without making my parents too mad?
Davywolf at the conclusion of my asexuality: How do I tell my parents without getting them too mad at me. I did things I think are normal, while other things I did i’m not proud of. I’ll state everything i did to see if I truly was aromantic asexual. First, i saw if i was at least asexual so i did the following: stared at people, even their chest and pelvis area (both sexes) to see if I would get aroused. Also, I tried to think of the appearance of my perfect girl, or guy. Next, I tried to purposely make up my own fantasies including both sexes to see if I would get aroused, horny, or get an erection. I even googled “hot guys and girls” to see If i found anyone “attractive enough”. Nothing was working, so I kicked it up a notch. I watched porn with both sexes. I was so grossed out, I would’ve had a better time watching Final destination (2009) (a very graphic movie). i was not aroused, didn’t feel horny, skimmed through the videos because I couldn’t watch the whole thing, see them in sudden nightmares that are short, and know that I’m SCARRED from that experience. Sure, if you watched me watch porn, you probably wouldn’t see much wrong, when truly, I feel sick and grossed out. once in a while, i’ll watch another one to see if i change, i don’t. During this, I also tested to see if i was aromantic or non-romantic. I tried to notice how much in common I had with every friend (every relationship always starts with a solid friendship), see which one I had the easiest time talking with, and the friend which we never couldn’t stop having fun or never ran out of things to talk about (each other, mainly), and the winner was my friend Jordan (girl) (a very close competition , too). Yet, I didn’t feel anymore closer to her than any other friend I had. I loved all my friends the same, nothing more or less for each of them (both guys and girls), JUST FRIENDS!!! Should I show them this or tell them directly? How should I tell them? should I just cross my fingers and hope for not that much yelling? Do you think they’ll understand if i tell them I didn’t like any of it?
Best answer:
Answer by melouofs
I don’t think its necessary to tell anyone anything regarding this. So, you remain single. Its no big deal.
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