I am really depressed I have no friends?
by Ken Lund
Question by Andy: I am really depressed I have no friends?
Today I have been really depressed, I have no friends at school (I am in 10th grade btw) and I just feel really bad. Today is Halloween and my older sister( in 11tth grade) is going to a party and she has friends. My little sister( in 5th grade) is going trick or treating with her friends. I am gonna have to stay home like always because I am a loner. I am really tired of this. I don’t kno what is wrong with me. Since I was little I have had like a social problem or something. It’s not like I can’t talk to people but it’s just like I suck at keeping a conversation going and all that. When I was a freshmen people talked to me and invited me to eat lunch with them and I did but I didn’t talk cuz I didn’t kno wat to say. They all talked about sething but I just couldn’t think of anything to say and for like the whole semester I sat with them all quiet and they sometimes asked me stuff and I answered and tried to keep the conversation going but that failed. One day I went to sit with them and there weren’t enough seats so I had to sit by myself and it was extremely akward cuz all they could say was “sorry” and it seemed like they didn’t even care. One day I decided to sit with new people and they seemed to like me and I have been sitting with them ever since but I am still really really quiet. Everytime I meet someone the conversation goes well until I have already told th about me and I’ve asked them about them then we don’t kno way to talk about. I don’t have anything in common with anyone. I like technology and making movies and all that and I’m even in a media class but everyone that’s in that class is because it’s an easy class. I haven’t been this depressed. I am 15 and I have never dated a girl before. I am currently talking to this girl who seems to like me but we are eventually gonna run out of things to talk about and it will all be akward. Wat is wrong with me? It is only me because my sister is really social and she has friends and she is confident. There are a few days in the year when I feel really confident and I am not that quiet but most of the days I am really quiet. Everyone in my class hang out and het invited to parties but I don’t cuz I’m just that quiet kid and if u met me u would like me but if u had to see me everyday u wouldn’t kno what to talk about with me and I never get invited to hang out after school or anything. I tried once to go out with this girl( as friends ) and we did and I asked her if more people could come but they all rejected and this girl said yes cuz she liked me. PLEASE HELP ME I AM REALLY DEPRESSED RIGHT NOW. this has been going on since I was little. Oh and the weird thing is is that I’m not like this with my sister and we get along great but that is because I barely talk, she is the one who talks and talks and talks but I am not that akward with her or my cousing who I love to hang out with because we are from the same country and we have like inside jokes and stuff oh and I am not from the us but my English is not the problem because I speak perfectly good English. Anyway, sorry for writing so long but my mind is kinda vomitting right now. How can I fix my problem? Thanks in advanced for the help.
I suck at sports
Best answer:
Answer by Happy Feet
try talk to people in ur class. try out for sports u will get more friends if u’re on the football or basketball team.
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