I need a one-liner that will affect my life drastically please?

Question by T.O: I need a one-liner that will affect my life drastically please?
Hey everyone,

This is the third question I am asking in regard to a girl I really adore. Below I’m posting my first two questions…

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PART ONE) I’m in college and I meet this girl I really like in tennis practice. We played some doubles for the next week, and flirted around a little bit, then I invited her to a small party. By the end of the night I started making out with her, and then she started asking some questions that I wasn’t expecting.

“I don’t want to be another booty call”
“what do you like about me?”
“I don’t think I’m your type”
“I feel like your only after my body”

I responded with the basics “I really like your eyes, your smile, your personality, you’re definitely my type”, she responded “how can I trust you, I hardly know you”, me “you’ll just have to take my word, I’m not trying to sleep with u, I’m just trying to get closer to you”… and then she went back to the “I don’t think I’m your type” statement. (by the way, my desire is to have a relationship with her, not ‘hit and quit it’)
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PART TWO) I took some of the advise I got and this is what happened the day after:

I apologized for coming on too strong, she said “oh don’t worry bout it you were fine” then I invited her for a movie in the afternoon, after that we went to eat at applebees, everything was going well. Then we went back to my place and started watching a stand up comedian on my computer, next thing we’re making out.

Here’s were things got complicated:

Everything was going fine until I started taking off her pants (shirt was already off), she said that she feel’s like **** about this because she’s not ‘that’ type, and asked me these questions:

What are your intentions with me?
What do you like about me?
I don’t want to do this just because ‘we’re here’ (in my bedroom)

I responded with the basics and told her that I would like a relationship possibly, because I like her… she said that she just got out of a 3 year relationship and doesn’t want to lead me on, and she wants to be friends… although, directly after that, she made out with me for another 5 mins, then said that she should go, so I walked her home and kissed her bye.

Overall I feel like she likes me partially, but there’s something that I must be doing wrong, I won’t give up cause I really like her. Suggestions on how I can win her heart, WITHOUT going into the ‘friend zone’?
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PART THREE) The next day, Sunday, she went to Boston with a girlfriend, and I saw her today at tennis practice. Here’s were things got sad: she wouldn’t talk to me much, I said hi and how are you, she responded bluntly, and then I asked how was Boston, and she hardly made eye contact with me and responded just “it was fun”, and couple of other small things were spoken in practice and then that’s it. I think you guys were right, I moved too fast and she might think I’m just after her body. Right now things aren’t looking good.

I want to take things slow now and show her that I appreciate her as a person (this will be hard since I made a bad first impression). She is on aim and I want to send her a message before I log off saying something like this “hey I kind of felt like there was a little tension between us today, and I thought about it. So if you want to be just friends for now, I’m ok with it, hopefully we can still hang out and get to know eachother.”

If you have any suggestions for this message I’m going to send, or any suggestions on what I should do overall please tell me. It’s like I’m trying to get her to trust me and become friends, but I also want to avoid a permanent ‘friend zone’. Thank you

Best answer:

Answer by voice of reason
Well if you made a bad impression so did she as she was pretty responsive to your advances.
She probably got feedback from her friend and is embarrassed.
Keep your interest toned down but be open friendly saying hello and smiling at her. This time though let her make the first move to show you she is interested. Then when she does invite her out but nowhere where you can make a move on her.
To the restaurant or wherever and leave her at the door at the end of the evening.
Wait for her rub up against you and let her do the undressing next time.
I’m sure she will come around.

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