Q&A: Advice on boyfriend? is he being selfish?

Question by MissJess: Advice on boyfriend? is he being selfish?
I tried to write more on my last one… first off my man is selfish states he’s not. Never says sorry anymore for his mess ups. He tells me he wants a family but his time for all the things he does (with no money/no job) his mma stuff. Movie making…omg the list goes on. Here’s the issue. Sat/tues is our nights. Sat (date night ) tues (fam night ) all the other times. HIM. Now if he has things that come up on the other nights as long as he talks/communicates to me first I’m okay with it. Were not dating. We have a son and this is a comitted relationship. Now sat he went to a “film event” which happened to be a bday party. Claiming he will make it up to me. It will be about US!! Now today its changed bc his selfish nature even making it seem like I’m taking away from his “dream” the man wants to be a huge director and mma fighter ( he has no money/no job/ back injury)… come on?! And 32. Anyway this “make up night” turns out to be an mma event. Now… I’m okay with that. Not my cup of tea but I will go. Something he enjoys. Now he wants to leave tonight ( we have a son. No one to watch him ) guess I come in there? … he now is going to “train” one of the fighters. So our make up date night if I go I gotta be by myself most of the night. Now he says his friend will pick him up and I can drive down by myself to meet him. Not knowing the area ( dangerous place ) and a huge event??? Wtf!!!??? But yet he says if he doesn’t do this its like me taking away an opp for him? I said what about your opp to have your family??? Is it a puerto rican thing or is he just a worthless selfish man? I feel I should have left forever ago! But he says ” I love you” ” your the love of my life” he did say he wouldn’t give any of it up for me since he had opps and his wife messed it up…??? Idk!!! Why is he playing with me/my heart? Wasting my time. Is he selfiish. Wish I could tell you the FULL story of what’s happened

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Answer by jimrich
omg the list goes on.
>> Yes, he’s selfish – what are you going to do about it?

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