Q&A: Attention! For all you guys who want help on how to be smooth with a girl!?
Question by marieantoinettelova: Attention! For all you guys who want help on how to be smooth with a girl!?
As I surf this nifty website I often encounter the question “how do I act around her?” “how do i talk to this girl i like?” and other questions of the sort. Well here are some answers and tips that I think most girls will agree with!
1)DO NOT BE COCKY–not hard to follow, plain and simple, lay off the bragging of being such a pimp, how many slam dunks you make per game, how much money you got in da bank, all that annoying bs girls cant stand. Unfortunantly, guys have a hard time following this SO DONT FORGET IT!
2)Be friendly!–dont give the girl the vibe “i’m so popular that you should be paying me to talk to you right now” kinda thing. She will be glad to be able to check the “Nice” box next to your name. NO ONE LIKES A JERK. Smile! Make her feel good!
3)which brings me to the MAKE HER SMILE AND LAUGH–when does making the girl you like smile and laugh ever go wrong? (unless she is laughing at you) It will make her be waaay more comfortable around you and who doesn’t like a funny guy? Nobody! So yeah bottom line is, the more you make her smile the more comfortable and friendly and relaxed she will be with you. But don’t be an embarassing clown.
4) Talk about APPROPRIATE THINGS!–We DO NOT want to hear about your dick, sports, higher test grade, how bloated you feel, how horny you feel, anything that sounds gross and could make a girl gag or scrunch her face in disgust or die of boredom. Talk about something you guys have in common.
5)be confident. sorry if I sound like I’m contradicting myself, but there is A HUGE difference between cocky and confident. Cocky is when you make yourself look like a concieted douche. Confident is when you are secure enough to talk to the girl you like without passing out, shaking until she thinks you are having a seizure, not making eye contact like she has a non existent head and stuff like that. Be secure! Whats the worst that can happen? If she is mean you shoudn’t have liked that jerk in the first place and she is SO not worth your time! Being confident will make her feel more comfortable and less like “why does he look like is about to barf with nervousness? Weird. He must really like me. AAHH”
6) common sense guys, dont look/stare at her boobs. Pretty much self-explanatory. If you stare at her boobs she will only think you want to bang her and if that the case than go ahead. Plus it will probably make her feel akward and uncomfortable.
Well now that I got those out of the way here are some awesome conversation starters!
Have you seen the movie ____….
Did you do number 5 from last nights homework?…
Do you have Mr.Blah for biology?
When does the movie ___ come out again?
Make a joke about your teacher! Comment on something she says or something that happened. Jump in a convo she is having with her friend (but make sure you are not butting in in a private matter).
Well hope this helped to all you somewhat clueless guys. Its not as hard as you think! Good luck. And yeah I HAD to get this out of my system.
Best answer:
Answer by :)ebt.
hey this was pretty good :]
how do you get the ten points on this? 😀
flattery, aye?
i can do that.
this was most def right on all accounts
you go girl.
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