she says she isnt ready for a serious relationship,cause of hurt from another man?B.S.?I think so?
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this girl told me shes wasnt ready for a serious realtionship,because her boyfriend cheated on her,and plus she has 2 baies for him.I know its b.s.,but she said if she was ready,she would have went out with me,when mr.right comes around,i know shes gonna get on it.But this happen after,she showed interset in me,she lost it,now this all happend a few weeks before she had changer her mind,at first she asked me did i have a gf,and i told her i had stalkers,then i asked about her bf,and she said that he was in jail.So,she asked me to go with her to the movies,everything flowed,and i was making progress,also shes from cali and she was in my statehome,and when she got home,we text all night,then she started txting me like crazy after that,every moring and night,wake up texts,and and good night texts,then this is the night,when she asked me to go out with her again,so i went out her her,it was supposed to be a doubledate,but my boy girl never showed up,so we went out at the club,and she was responding different,flirting with my friend,and she said that i acted weird that night,so something turned her off about me,but anyway,i was making her laugh,when i first started talking to her,then after a while,it was more i say a joke,and she`ll just ignore joke,it never was funny.So,thats how i knew she was getting turned off,so after the club,she laid her head on my shoulder,and she kept kept looking at me smiling while she was at the club.So when i got home,2 days later,i just kept it real with her,and told her,shes beautiful,youre one of the realest chicks,ive ever met,and that shes beautiful, and since i alreadi knew that she was not interested anymore, i just brought up the fact to tell her what feels right to her to do it.And she text me back she going back to cali(personal buisness)cause she couldnt get a job here.college,etc,and that she thanked me for protecting her,and that i was 2 cute,and that if she wasnt in a position,to be with her babies cause she sid being a single mom is tough,she would have went out with me no doubt,but i still think its b.s.but when she told me that,she was saying she still want to hang out,shes trying to have as much fun as possible,and finish up college cause she just enrolled in cali.and that shes trying not to go out that much nomore,but she told me she still wanna hang out,and go have some more fun,before she leaves in bout a week.Now i alreadi know,shes not interested,but she likes me,in a friendly way and in a likeable way,but her response havent been the same,i can feel it,as she text me,and its only been 2 days,but i know im not the one for her,whuzzup guys and gals,your opinions
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date someone else… please, for the love of all that is good, date someone else!! for the sake of your sanity, date someone else!
Get out NOW!! leave!! Run as fast and as far as you can!!!
I know you’re not going to listen to me. I didn’t listen. I thought we would be different. I thought things might work out. But it just left me insane.
Watch “500 Days of Summer”.. that might help. It helped me.. a little. I mean, it helped me break up with her.. but I foolishly let her back in when she realized after the break up she did in fact want to “be in a relationship” with me. But she was still the same, and I still could never fully trust her with my heart. It’s nothing but a freaking mess.
Watch “500 Days of Summer”… seriously, do it.
Date someone else. Find someone who actually WANTS to be in a relationship.
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Oh, you’re a different situation from me.. you’re not actually dating her… well, that’s easier to deal with. You don’t need to watch that movie, hahaha… dude, don’t get hung up on a chick.. if she ain’t diggin’ you, move on to the next one!
And do you really want to be the rebound??
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