Very bitter, my ex-boyfriend played me why is he so happy still not over him?
Question by Ms. Tay: Very bitter, my ex-boyfriend played me why is he so happy still not over him?
I stuck with him through thick and thin for three years, see he is an immigrant from Jamaica and he married his kids mother several years ago to obtain citizenship. He had to bribe her with money to go on the interviews with him because basically she didn’t get along with him too tough, well she finally did and by 2007 he obtained his 10yr green card. He was not with her, I met his whole family he met mine and at the time he lived with me. I gave him a whole year to divorce her so the marriage would look believable, a year passes he didn’t file for divorce so I kicked him out the house, despite all of that we were still together (mainly due to him showing me the papers that he was starting the divorce)! Throughout us being a couple that no longer lived together, I found out whenever we got into disputes he talk to women online, he even got into contact with his ex (not the woman he married for the greencard) and she sent explicit text..even one of his associates told me that he said “out of all the byiatches that I am the main pussy” I confront him he smiling it off, I made him swear on the bible he could barely look me in the eye and he could barely put his hand on that bible. As a woman in love I look past that..throughout the relationship I admit it wasn’t rosey he attacked me twice without me even laying a hand on him..the third time he attacked me, but I attack him first due to self defense this man threaten to kill me and all , but yet we were still together. Finally by summer 2009 I confront him about the divorce process he act so nonchalant that it turned into a argument and we broke up..well a mth after we broke up he threw this new chick in my face claiming they had no chemistry but how she babysits his kids..long story short the chick interacted with me and claim she doesn’t like black men and how they didn’t have chemistry! Well all of that was a lie she was topless in his apartment and I saw the pic online.and both still denied shyt smh.he called her baby on youtube,technology told on them! After the youtube vid he couldn’t deny it ..I am so hurt because I loved this man so much and now I see all these new vids he have with her they making independent movies with his vid camera and getting their lil’ cast together and I am angry because he forgot about the woman (me) that he suppose to have love and never leave..for god’s sake I was with him for 3yrs!!! He with her now, both lied and betrayed me..so he with her now making love to her..shooting their lil independent movies being happy and I can’t stand it..why do people get away with so much dirt and remain on top??????
Thanks to everybody that gave advice so far..especially Bubbles for your heartfelt advice I wish there was a way we could keep in touch ..my screen name on yahoo is :diamondfirerainbows hit me up Bubbles and anyone else that would like to chat! 🙂
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Answer by <3 <3
honestly karma will back to him. i swear. i think YOU are the one who should be out there partying because your life right now is soooooooo much better as that jerk is gone from it.
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