Why he ignoring me? Did he even liked me? Plz Read… And let me know what ya’ll think…?

Question by : Why he ignoring me? Did he even liked me? Plz Read… And let me know what ya’ll think…?
I was talking to this guy for about 2 weeks on the phone. We swapped numbers on a dating website coz we liked the look of each othaz picz and was talking on the phone ever since. He would call me up and text me all the time and we got on really well. We waz talking every night for 2 weeks. He would say really sweet things to me like how he thought I was gawjus and he wanted me as his girl how we could talk for hours and felt like we had a connection and that he would take me were ever I wanted to go and treat me and that he can’t stop thinking about me cant wait to meet me blah blah blah. He looked really good in his pics too so I felt like I had to meet this guy. He seems like a keeper. I finally agreed to meet him. He came to my house to pick me up. I was a lil shy at first as he was the first person I met from online so I was very nervous as I didn’t know what to expect or even if he would like me. He looked even better in person and I was totally smitten which made me even more nervous as I kept thinking to myself hope he likes me. He cuddled and kissed me and told me not to be so shy. He told me I was gorgeous and everything he expected me to be and that he wanted me as his girl. He took me out bought me a new dress. He took me to a restaurant for meal and then he took me to cinema to watch movie and then went back to my place. he was all over me during the whole time he was with me. Kissing, touching, licking and biting me. When he got back to mine he whipped his dick out and was asking me to fcuk him but I sed no. I was asking to go to his. I told him I would at his. He sed cant we just do it at yours but I insisted no at his but then he got a phone call and told me his cousin was in hospital and his asking for him and he has to go. He then rushed off. I just don’t get it. Was he genuine or did he just use that as an excuse to get off. Does he even like me. I just dont understand it as no guy has ever rushed off on me like that b4. Everything was going so well untill then and I was so confused as I know about the emergency fake phone call ppl use to get outta dates but he was all over me so it don’t make any sense. Before he went he also told me he wants to be with me so whenever you ready just let me know and I can call him anytime. He told me that. He then kissed me and rushed off. I phoned him and texted him the next morning. I got no response and kinda freaked out as I thought he ignoring me on purpose and he just used that as an excuse to get off. How was like thinking how dare he *cry* *cry* I really like this guy and really freaked out I did get a bit mad so I phoned him about a dozen times and texting him asking if he likes me and does he want to be with me and to please get back to me. He not picking up and no reply. I did sound like a desperate physco but surely if he really liked me he stil woulda got back ryte. I kept calling him for a few days then I stopped as I relised what was I doing acting crazy chasing him like a loser if he likes me he would come to me right so I stopped. It has been 3 weeks now and no word and I have not contacted him either. Did he use that phone call as an excuse to just get away from me or did I scare him with all the phone calls the next day. Does he even like me. I so confused and just don’t get it coz no guy has rushed off on me b4 and ignored me the next day and it not just that he was all over me when he was with me making out and telling me he wants to be with me. Now he just completely ignoring me. How can someone be so loved up with you then rush of and ignore you. It doesn’t even make no sense. I can’t stop thinking about it. I just don’t get it. I just want to know why he ignoring me. It propa getting to me. No guy has ever ignored me like that before. I feel like such a reject. What do ya’ll think?

Best answer:

Answer by metalmancer
give it some time. youre talkin bout the very next day. he could be out of town, cell off, distrought over his friend (that coulda been real). if a few days go by and he hasnt responded just text and ask if everything is ok (but in kind of a “being there” way not a “why havnt you called” way). if still nothing then he probably got scared or just wanted sex.

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